If you want your relationship to soar and sing then you need to begin by accepting responsibility for where you are right now. You need to become the creator and author of your destiny. Just image what it would be like to have your own happily-ever-after love story. Hush for a moment the little critic inside of you that says, "It's not possible, or it's not for you."
Just take a few moments to imagine, in as much detail as you can, what that relationship would feel like, what it would look like, what you would do and say, what your partner would do and say.
Know that it is possible to have the "dream" come true. Not that we are going off to live in fantasy land, but here in reality we can have the relationship that we want and are willing to cultivate.
We begin by taking complete responsibility for our relationship at this moment. We completely give up blaming our partner or circumstances for anything. Blaming keeps us stuck and makes us powerless to improve things, since we must sit around waiting for our partner or our circumstances to change.
Just take a few moments to imagine, in as much detail as you can, what that relationship would feel like, what it would look like, what you would do and say, what your partner would do and say.
Know that it is possible to have the "dream" come true. Not that we are going off to live in fantasy land, but here in reality we can have the relationship that we want and are willing to cultivate.
We begin by taking complete responsibility for our relationship at this moment. We completely give up blaming our partner or circumstances for anything. Blaming keeps us stuck and makes us powerless to improve things, since we must sit around waiting for our partner or our circumstances to change.